How you treat others is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself. You may not think others notice, but they do. You may think that it is everyone else, but it is you. You are the only one in control of you. If you come across 100 people in a day and they are ALL out to get you, wouldn’t it make more sense that perhaps it is just you and your attitude? You are, afterall, the one common denominator in every situation you are found in. If you go out into the world looking for a fight, you will find one that you have created all by yourself.
If you are kind to yourself, you will be kinder to others. If you are patient with yourself, you will be more patient with other people.
Don’t let your internal dialogue be so negative that you start affecting other people.
No person is an island of themselves; we are all apart of the same world. Your actions towards other people DO have consequences, whether or not they are apparent today or tomorrow. We affect each other; from the people we love the most, all the way to the person checking us out at the grocery store. Every. Single. Person. Is relevent. You are relevent.
Change your thoughts, change your words to others, your actions and people will start to respond differently to you. The way people act towards you is a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself and how you in turn made them feel.